Everything has a default state and requires energy to move it away from that default state. Energy is also required to establish a new default state. Additionally, energy is required to maintain the system in its desired state. Sometimes, this energy can be outsourced.
Example: A relationship’s default state is non-existent. If left alone, the relationship will naturally migrate back to its default state.
Example: A company’s default state is non-existent. If left alone, the company will also migrate back to its default state.
Example: Weddings transfer part of the energy requirement from the couple to society and legal systems. Thus, marriage decreases the minimum energy required to keep the relationship going. In other words, it increases the amount of energy required to end the relationship.
Extra: https://www.reddit.com/r/mentalmodels/comments/cunrat/entropy/
Dec (Actions that decrease energy usage)
Inc (Actions that increase energy usage)